It’s important to be connected to the body of Christ, His Church, for the good of faith, others, our own good, to respect, esteem and honor the Church leaders, for the good of unbelievers and for our souls. A brief paraphrase of the lesson Pastor presented in response to a question during Bible study some weeks ago. This dovetailed with his message during the service yesterday on Pentecost Sunday, about how we need to replace the language of self—that life is all about me and what I want—with selflessness and spiritual purpose. That’s the standard to which we are called to adhere.

Much of our language about honor, respect and esteem relates to ourselves, that is, self-esteem. Research about self-esteem programs has shown zero impact, except young participants have a harder time dealing with criticism and as adults suffer higher rates of anxiety, loneliness, and depression. Another reason to connect with the body of Christ, adhere to that standard, and honor others.

In the Bible, honor typically means to hold someone in high esteem, respect, or reverence, showing deference, and demonstrating appreciation. The concept of honor is closely tied to glorifying God and extends to honoring others, especially parents, those in authority, and fellow believers. 

Honor God

you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies. 1 Corinthians 6:20 NIV

The highest form of honor is reserved for God, involving reverence, fear, and acknowledging His glory. And honoring Christ’s sacrifice for us. Biblical honor is both internal attitude and outward actions: obedience, respect, and appropriate behavior. 

The Bible often presents honor as a duty, particularly in family relationships.

Honor parents

Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you. Exodus 20:12 NIV

The fifth of the Ten Commandments—honor your father and mother—signifies respect and obedience, gratitude and love, living a life that reflects their values, revering one’s parents and showing a willingness to care for them as they age. 

In life and in death, as with Keith’s father who is buried at Arlington National Cemetery. Full Honors for a man who served our country in WWII, Korea and Vietnam and trained a generation of pilots. Full Honors for the man’s family who shared his sacrifice, moving around the world, missing him when he had to be away from his wife and children, all knowing that he might not return. Full Honors for Dad, who is now home.

Honor others

The elders who direct the affairs of the church well are worthy of double honor, especially those whose work is preaching and teaching. 1 Timothy 5:17 NIV

The granting of honor to others is essential in the believer’s life. Christians are to bestow honor on those for whom honor is due. Every Sunday, we pray for our leaders, implicitly honoring those in positions of authority in government or church. Leaders should seek not but merit honor. The weight of high-profile service is heavy, and all fall short. But the standard of conduct remains and reminds. Thanks be to God.

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